10 "NEVERS" & 10 "ALWAYS"

Bismillah....

Got this piece of info from this website: http://stepsaheadlearners.com/about-us.htm

1. Never force	Always encourage
2. Never punish harshly	Always reason it
3. Never shake a child	Always with gentle approach
4. Never shout/ scream	Always speak calmly
5. Never deny/ deprive	Always speak the truth
6. Never accuse	Always communicate & believe
7. Never refuse unreasonably	Always talk about it to develop self-awareness & To build a strong relationship with you
8. Never be negative	Always be positive to develop confidence & always motivate
9. Never stare & glare	Always with loving & forgiving eyes
10. Never compare	Always praise & give your child good memories to support self-identity

Hope i'm able to apply this "philosophy" to my beloved children, inshaAllah... Ameen...

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Plus, another info i got from this website:  
http://www.brhomplus.com/2011/02/cara-mendidik-anak-pesanan-saidina-ali.html

Pesanan Saidina Ali r.a.

Didiklah anak kamu dengan cara yang berbeza setiap 7 tahun.

7 tahun pertama: beri dan ajarkan mereka tentang kasih sayang.
Manjakan mereka dengan kelembutan dan rasa cinta.

7 tahun kedua: berlaku tegas dengan mereka.
Didik mereka dan perbetulkan kesalahan yang mereka lakukan.

7 tahun ketiga: berkawanlah dengan mereka,
di saat ini mereka memerlukan teman untuk berbicara dan mengemukakan pendapat.
Mereka sudah boleh berfikir, bersahabatlah dengan mereka sebelum mereka mempunyai sahabat lain yang boleh meroksakkan akhlak.

..:: Comedy Series ::..

Sejak zaman remaja lagi, saya sudah meminati siri komedi F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

 Yep, I've watched all episodes from Season 1 to Season 10

 Ada 6 main characters, and they were Phoebe, Monica, Rachel, Ross, Chandler and Joey...

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Sekarang, di waktu zaman-zaman ibu muda ini pula, saya amat meminati siri komedi

HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER

From left: Barney Stinson, Robin Scherbatsky,  Ted Mosby, Lily Aldrin, Marshall Eriksen

 My Fav Character - Of course watak utama :p

I've always thought she's beautiful & flawless

Anyways, cite ni sungguh lawak (kata komedi kann)......daaaannnnnnn ketagihhhh!!  Setakat ni ada 6 Seasons... dan I've watched Season 1,2 & 3... sekarang saya sedang berusaha gigih untuk menonton Season 4,5&6...bila ada masa terluang je, mesti buka laptop and watch it...yep, thanks to my hubby's friend who was kind enough to downloaded it for me =) Yippie!!

Approved!!!

Bismillah...

Erm, kisah lama dan boring pun sebenarnye..huhu.. tanggal  14/02/11 yang lalu, saya dpt tahu...dengan rasminya pihak fakulti telahpun approved thesis topic saya...maka dengan itu, saya dibenarkan utk meneruskan kajian saya sehingga lah selesai (tak tau la bila tuh....)

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ada banyak lagi cerita menarik yang hendak dikongsikan di sini...tp nanti bila ada masa saya cerita lagi yer.. tiba-tiba rasa sedih pula sbb tak lama lagi adik saya akan pulang ke australia...sob..sob..sob...sunyi la rumah org tuaku nnt.... :(   hopefully one day we'll get a chance to go there and visit him... ameen..

IRPC

Bismillah...

Please don't ask me what IRPC stands for.  All I know is that RPC stands for Research Proposal Committee (I think lor..huhu..correct me if i'm wrong ya!!)...anyways, today got IRPC meeting, and I am one of the five presenters.  I have only 5 minutes (7 ppt slides) to present my research proposal to the other lecturers. Then, they will shoot me give suggestions, feedback, or even ask questions to get a clear picture of what my research is all about.

Alhamdulillah, I think it went well.  Tunggu surat from the postgraduate office saja, to see whether or not my thesis topic is going to be approved or not.  Hopefully approve lor... Daaa!~

Tatih..

Bismillah...

My 1st child.

A girl.

Going to be 15 months soon.

I'm so proud of her!

She has 12 teeth.

Enjoys playing with others.

Likes to laugh.

Talks to herself a LOT.

But.

There is only one thing.

She is afraid.

To walk.

One step.

Two step.
Three step.

Then she falls.

However.
She never gives up.
And I'm sure. One Day.
She will WALK like others.

Patience.

Istiqamah.
Love.
Is all she needs.

p/s: orang kata, kalau anak 1st mmg normal klu jalan lambat... ada pula org kata, klu tumbuh gigi dulu, lambat jalan...klu jalan cepat, lambat tumbuh gigi...apa-apa pun, yg penting anak Ummi sihat & ceria!! Hihi...

Doa-doa Yang Bisa Diamalkan

Bismillah...

Kali ni saya nak kongsikan doa-doa yang boleh dibaca oleh muslimin & muslimat semua.
Mudah-mudahan doa kita dimakbulkan. Allahumma ameen.

Blackberry Storm 2

Bismillah...

Bulan lepas, Encik Suami minta saya teman dia pergi Sg Wang.   Saya pun dengan senang hati pegi teman beliau yg mmg da berniat utk beli handphone di sana.  Sampai aje Sg Wang, kami pun nampak la booth Blackberry.   Saya mmg tak minat langsung dgn Blackberry.  Sbb saya langsung tak reti guna pon. Akhirnya, Encik Suami amik keputusan utk membeli Blackberry Storm 2.

Sampai saja di rumah, saya tanya, "Wah, canggihnya handphone..senang ke nak guna??"
Encik Suami balas, "takpe, meh kita try dulu..."  

Pendek cite, after few days, Encik Suami amik keputusan utk menghadiahkan Blackberry tersebut kpd insan yg amat dia sayangi dan cintai sepenuh hati jiwa dan raga, tak lain dan tak bukan, saya-lah!! hehe... :p  Dia kata, "Awak amik la Blackberry ni ye...hadiah anniversary kita!"  Saya pun terima dgn senang hati.  Walaupun saya tak reti langsung nak menggunakannya.

Sampai skrg Blackberry itu masih tersimpan rapi di dalam laci.

1.  Sebab saya tak pandai guna (tolong la ajar wahai sape2 yg tahu...)
2.  Dan juga sbb saya risau sgt klu anak saya nampak, nnt dia usik2 dan baling ke lantai
     (anak saya baru berusia 14 bulan)